I have never come upon a paywall while casually browsing the news and thought, "Let me get my credit card out."
It's always, "I don't need to know that badly."
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I have never come upon a paywall while casually browsing the news and thought, "Let me get my credit card out."
It's always, "I don't need to know that badly."
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> I am a 15-year-old girl. Let me show you the vile misogyny that confronts me on social media every day
The examples included here are horrible. Not just the sex-shaming, but that too.
I'm far from convinced that a social media ban is the answer, but the comment is still well worth reading - especially by men.
theguardian.com/commentisfree/…
Objectification, hate, rape threats: the politicians debating online abuse mean well, but to truly understand, they need to see what I seeGuardian staff reporter (the Guardian)
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🤯 A visual physics lesson at 80 km/h.
Enthusiasts launched a man from a moving truck in the opposite direction - at the same speed the car was traveling.
The experiment spectacularly showed how relative speed works.
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I never applied for an amateur radio license because I didn't like the idea of appearing on an official list of "skilled" people. Until now that was a theoretical fear. One I wasn't even sure if it was warranted or just me being overly cautious.
In Belarus things escalated quickly. Radio amateurs - usually recognized as men of goodwill - have been declared enemies of the state and publicly shamed and indicted for high treason.
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Scientists discovered that some dogs, known as Gifted Word Learners, can passively pick up language and may possess toddler-level cognitive skills.
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New, by me: The Kimwolf Botnet is Stalking Your Local Network
Today's story is a long overdue series of scoops nestled inside a far more urgent Internet-wide security advisory. The vulnerability at issue has been exploited for months already, and it’s time for a broader awareness of the threat. The short version is that everything you thought you knew about the security of the internal network behind your Internet router probably is now dangerously out of date.
krebsonsecurity.com/2026/01/th…
The story you are reading is a series of scoops nestled inside a far more urgent Internet-wide security advisory. The vulnerability at issue has been exploited for months already, and it's time for a broader awareness of the threat. The…krebsonsecurity.com
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A lot of the streaming boxes and sticks are deliberately evil. Some stupidity. The Streaming services are not good on privacy.
Sat TV boxes and Projector have no WiFi password.
The Nintendo Switch and Steamdeck have WiFi.
Router is Fritz!box with even ISP and vendor access disabled.
Today in 1983, 43 years ago: The ARPANET officially changes to using TCP/IP, the Internet Protocol, effectively creating the Internet.
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I saw my aunt this weekend. I always admired her growing up: she was a dedicated dancer, bird watcher, traveler, and general arts-enjoyer. I took up ballet and piano because I wanted to be just like her.
I just found out that she started all of those hobbies after she got sober in her 40s, shortly before I was born. Her defining characteristics, in my eyes, have occupied less than half of her life.
It was a nice reminder that you can start a new chapter of your life whenever you’d like.
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It’s been a while, and over the past year I’ve moved and consolidated my Fediverse identities, so it felt like the right time for an updated #introduction.
I began my Fediverse journey on fosstodon.org and mastodon.art. Before long, though, I realized I wanted more control over my online spaces, which led me down the path of running my own instances. Along the way I launched jabber.social (Snikket), fairly.social (Mastodon), and snaps.social (Pixelfed). While I enjoyed building and running them, I eventually recognized that maintaining community servers long-term required more mental bandwidth than I could sustainably give.
That shift ultimately led me to #selfhosting with #YunoHost. The early learning curve—and finding the right VPS—was a bit rough, but once I got past that stage, things settled into a much smoother and more manageable rhythm.
Today, I self-host services for Friendica, BookWyrm, FreshRSS, Wallabag, LinkStack, Matrix, and Prosody, and I’m considering adding a dedicated note-taking app next.
Beyond the infrastructure side of things, I’m an aspiring 2D/3D artist and occasional photographer with a long-standing love of science fiction. Having my own corner of the Fediverse makes it easier to share works in progress, experiments, and ideas—without the pressure that often comes with larger corporate platforms.
Overall, I’m much happier being self-hosted and largely disconnected from corporate social media.
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Aging Out of Fucks: The Neuroscience of Why You Suddenly Can’t Pretend Anymore Your brain's middle finger to people-pleasingwww.blog.lifebranches.com/p/aging-out-...
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Dear Fedi friends,
If you can set aside 11 minutes today, I highly encourage to watch @vkc's latest video: "I stream nothing, and I am happy."
🔗: tinkerbetter.tube/w/ns3WDZZgAo…
It is ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT and should be shown in media literacy and digital literacy classes everywhere. Actually, everyone should watch it (I'm about to send it to my family and friends).
My favorite part comes up towards the end. Veronica eloquently explains (9 min 27 sec in):
"I feel like we owe it to ourselves and to those who follow us to try and break free of algorithms, which tell us what we should like, who we should believe, and how we should feel about it.
It may sound melodramatic and maybe it is, but I see the increased dependence on algorithmically-driven entertainment as a symptom of that larger problem: uber-convenience that separates us from our critical thinking.
We're learning to abandon reason for small decisions, and wouldn't you know it, now it's easier to ignore reasons for the larger ones.
I'm not here to tell you what to think. I was raised in a "mind-your-own-damn-business" household and that's where my head is at. But I do want to implore all of us to think critically about how streaming media, autoplay, and the algorithm are impacting us."
I'm super proud to be a backer of her Patreon and I cannot thank her enough for this incredible video... which comes at the perfect time, as I was already planning to set up #Jellyfin next week.
If you can, join me in supporting Veronica's work here: patreon.com/VeronicaExplains
#DigitalLiteracy #BigTech #SelfHosting #independence #resist #MediaLiteracy
Joyful Linux and vintage tech videos/tutorials. Nerdy musician.Patreon
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yes consuming « physical » media is amazing. I love the intentionality of it, like Veronica so eloquently says.
I’d love to get into vynils but we don’t have the space in our small city apartment (already overflowing with LEGO)… my father in law has a record player… so maybe there (we go visit every week)
thank you Veronica! 💛 Your video was really outstanding - you spoke so eloquently about this important issue. I’m basically sending it to everyone I know.
And thank you for the kind offer about Jellyfin. I have already installed it via #YunoHost (which makes self-hosting so easy for us non devs). Now it’s just a matter of adding media to my library (I was away for 2 weeks because of French school holidays, so I’m excited to set it up today).
Thank you for all you do and keep up the incredible work! ✨💫
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✨ new on #TheFutureIsFederated 🚀
"My Fediverse Starter Guide" for newbies, based on my video and articles about Fediverse software and culture.
🔗 : news.elenarossini.com/my-fediv…
mentioning @Mastodon @news @gotosocial @pfefferle @pixelfed @peertube
If you share it with friends/family, let me know how it goes and if this guide is helpful to them 🙏
#digitalliteracy #BigTech #tech #SocialMedia #FOSS #blog
A starter guide for the Fediverse: what it is, how to join and its cultureElena Rossini
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That's actually pretty cool! I'll check those blogs. Thanks for the pointer.
After reading your post, I got very interested in Friendica due to its many features. But you have brought a good point that I should take long-term stability into account.
The Penguin of Evil
in reply to Neil Brown • • •Sadly not just social media. Same is as true in the press (where female chancellors get mocked as Rachel from accounts, or for their outfits) - I'm not sure social media is the source of the problem somehow.
Likewise I think a social media ban is a bad idea (and a disaster for disabled kids) - we need to actually fix social media, which means like a pub some people need to be shown the door and told not to come back
Matúš Chochlík
in reply to Neil Brown • • •Ret
in reply to Neil Brown • • •the depressing reality is that a group of (mostly) male, rich, powerful people (MPs and the broader British political class) are now discussing further punishing this group of young people by isolating them from any support they'd otherwise be able to find.
Meanwhile the Online Safety Act is slowly making it more and more difficult for proper social media - circles centred around interests, passions and identities - to exist. Driving more users into all the platforms this young person talks about here - Instagram, TikTok etc.
Once again, politicians have taken a problem, been offered nine hundred and ninety nine solutions and picked option 1000 - make everything worse.
Colman Reilly
in reply to Neil Brown • • •we've got to find a way to make society in general consider women as people rather than as objects.
toot.wales/@HarriettMB/1161191…
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in reply to Neil Brown • • •Sensitive content
Porky Nolosdos
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ChloChlo
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Social media has also helped incredible amounts of people though. It's allowed marginalized minorities to find people like them. It's allowed people to organize against oppressive governments.
It's also curated local events and increased turnout and access to so many things for so many people.
We can say "burn it to the ground" and part of me wants to agree, but... It would harm a lot of people too.
Hedders
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in reply to Neil Brown • • •Love how The Guardian could’ve run this exact article about online misogyny any time in the past ten years to make an argument against monetizing sexism and destroying the social fabric between genders. But now that the billionaires want a surveillance bubble, it’s truly their rag’s time to shine!
Ban abusers from public spaces, not their victims. It’s really not that complicated if we put our minds to it, but power loves to pretend.
Thank you for sharing this!
Robin Barton
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Unknown parent • • •I think this hints that the solution to this problem might not be of a legal nature.
OK, that reads like I'm suggesting something illegal would be the answer. Perhaps a better phrasing would be that there isn't a legislative answer to this question?
Renata 🇨🇦🐈
in reply to Neil Brown • • •I have an easy fix no one wants to talk about:
Punish people who don’t treat women as humans
No buts. Just punish them.
Pedro Quixote ‽ aka MultiVax
in reply to Neil Brown • • •Passwordsarehard4
Unknown parent • • •Steve Moore
in reply to Neil Brown • • •I’m so glad my sisters didn’t have social media to deal with, the face to face misogyny & sexism was bad enough. My grandnieces will have to grow up even tougher. I hope they kick some asses.
Jordan Biserkov
in reply to Neil Brown • • •Important article. I highly recommend the "Men who hate women" book by Laura Bates.
It shows how the hate towards women is not accidental, but the result of an highly organized political project that uses it to gain power. No ban on social media would accomplish anything unless that machine is stopped.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Who_…
Men Who Hate Women (Bates book) - Wikipedia
Contributors to Wikimedia projects (Wikimedia Foundation, Inc.)Giles of the Jungle
in reply to Neil Brown • • •I wish I could say this article didn't read as I expected, that I was surprised by what it reports.
I remember some boys at school could talk like that. Everyone avoided them. Lads will be lads, we said. This was the nineties.
Decades on, that attitude has not only survived, it's been legitimised on an industrial scale, by algorithms, influencers and people in power.
Preparing my kids for this world, giving them the skills and fortitude needed to traverse it, is a helluva challenge.
Kerplunk
in reply to Neil Brown • • •15-year-old girl. Let me show you the vile misogyny that confronts me on social media every day.
Disgusting is nowhere near strong enough for the contempt I feel for such stinking ignorant misogynist moronic excuses for male humans that write such crap.
I can sadly also assure only the media has changed not the content. When I went to school it was big mouth bragger words or scribbled on paper.
Passwordsarehard4
Unknown parent • • •Viral Obscurity
in reply to Neil Brown • • •It is truly awful online for anyone with a remotely feminine profile
I've had a lot of crap online over the years & I'm not a teen & never shared photos or anything personal
The problem with bans for under 16s is that this stuff still exists for everyone & delaying exposure to it until 16 doesn't solve the problem
The problem is govts won't make platforms stop feeding & promoting toxic content
Many platforms have removed their harassment protections
The article is essential reading
ChloChlo
Unknown parent • • •@benjamineskola @osma
To be clear, while this article is focused on teen girls, this is the stuff every minority sees on social media as well.
I'm trans. I have to actually relegate myself to only small corners of the internet because everywhere else feels so unsafe.
Meta no longer considers slurs and harassment of trans people as "against their policies." So any Meta platform is insufferable for me now.
Twitter actually encourages harassment of trans people and made the word "cis" a bannable offense.
And if I stray too far from the queer spaces of Reddit, I'll get called a man and doxxed pretty quickly.
I've been doxxed while using Insta in the past simply for existing as a trans person.
But the algorithm is the problem here. It's force feeding hate to kids and teaching them that it's good to hate. Monetizing hate is the issue and is what should be regulated.
Frederik
in reply to Neil Brown • • •Democratic Socialist BillJRyan
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